--------------- FIDO MESSAGE AREA==> TOPIC: 231 RECOVERY Ref: CDE00013 Date: 09/03/95 From: RICK GUSMAN Time: 11:07pm \/To: ELAINE LOVELESS (Read 2 times) Subj: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT -=> Quoting Michael Sigal to Elaine Loveless <=- Congradulations (late) Elaine on your 7 years. Keep cumin' and I'm looking forward to our continued conversation. Rick ... I haven't lost my mind; it's backed up on tape somewhere! --- FMail 1.0g * Origin: Dimensions - Westerly, RI - 401.596.3502 - (1:323/401) --------------- FIDO MESSAGE AREA==> TOPIC: 231 RECOVERY Ref: CDE00014 Date: 09/03/95 From: RICK GUSMAN Time: 11:07pm \/To: ELAINE LOVELESS (Read 2 times) Subj: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT -=> Quoting Michael Sigal to Elaine Loveless <=- Congradulations (late) Elaine on your 7 years. Keep cumin' and I'm looking forward to our continued conversation. Rick ... I haven't lost my mind; it's backed up on tape somewhere! --- FMail 1.0g * Origin: Dimensions - Westerly, RI - 401.596.3502 - (1:323/401) --------------- FIDO MESSAGE AREA==> TOPIC: 231 RECOVERY Ref: CDE00015 Date: 09/05/95 From: ED KASKY Time: 10:32pm \/To: ROSLYN REID (Read 2 times) Subj: Re: surrender -= I was thinking about something you said on 1 Sep 95, 05:06pm . . . =- Hey Roslyn -- EK>>I learned through conditioning to be a fighter and fend for myself in EK>>a hostile environment. In order to grow, I need to let some of that go, EK>>I need to surrender it, give it up, turn it over. RR> i hear ya...and like they say, you dont need to play those old RR> childhood tapes any more. they are no longer useful. It took me a second but I now remember the original message and why I wrote that ;-) You're right, they are no longer useful and I'm getting better at not listening to them. EK>>I first learned the concept a few years ago while riding my bicycle and EK>>was nearly run over by a person who nearly ran me off the road. Even EK>>though it was not intentional, I chased this person to the next stop EK>>light and wanted to let them know that they just did a very stupid and EK>>dangerous thing. RR> really?? you must be a HELL of a biker! Nah, just obsessive. He was stopped at a light just long enough. EK>>What I did instead was to throw both my arms up in the air and said to EK>>myself, they didn't do it on purpose, you're okay, let it go . . . I EK>>surrendered and felt a whole lot better inside. RR> that's the hardest thing to do, but you can make it work. it's RR> also the best thing to do--i mean, this kinda thing happens all RR> the time. you cant go around screaming at & beating up RR> everybody! (and around here, you never know who's gonna be RR> packing heat in their car!) --- I used to think it was my job to do just that. I then realized that the behavior was going to get me killed eventually or at least real well bruised. Thank God reason prevailed! LA is not much better I'm afraid to say . . . TTYL Ed ... 20-YEAR FRIENDSHIP ENDS AT ALTAR --- Via Silver Xpress V4.02B03P RB10238 * Origin: The Spider's Web, El Segundo, CA, (310) 416-9901 (1:102/541) --------------- FIDO MESSAGE AREA==> TOPIC: 231 RECOVERY Ref: CDE00016 Date: 09/03/95 From: RICK GUSMAN Time: 11:07pm \/To: ELAINE LOVELESS (Read 2 times) Subj: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT -=> Quoting Michael Sigal to Elaine Loveless <=- Congradulations (late) Elaine on your 7 years. Keep cumin' and I'm looking forward to our continued conversation. Rick ... I haven't lost my mind; it's backed up on tape somewhere! --- FMail 1.0g * Origin: Dimensions - Westerly, RI - 401.596.3502 - (1:323/401) --------------- FIDO MESSAGE AREA==> TOPIC: 231 RECOVERY Ref: CDE00017 Date: 09/05/95 From: ELAINE LOVELESS Time: 10:30am \/To: DON LATHANGUE (Read 2 times) Subj: Re: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATITUDE On 1 Sep 95 10:17pm, Don Lathangue wrote to Elaine Loveless: DL> Hello Elaine, DL> Happy birthday to you, DL> Happy birthday to you, DL> Happy birthday dear Elaine, DL> Happy birthday to you!!! DL> Congrats on 7 years. You really wear it well. Looks like another DL> success for Alcoholics Anonymous.....an absolute miracle. Hello Don! A message got misquoted, it wasn't me celebrating 7 years...don't remember who it was. I had 11 years in April. Thanks for the kind thoughts! :) ... If we learn from our mistakes, I'm about due for my PhD. Bright Blessings, Elaine --- Via Silver Xpress V4.01P SW12813 --- Squish/386 v1.11 * Origin: The Crossroads BBS, Round Rock, Texas (512) 255-8985 (1:382/506) --------------- FIDO MESSAGE AREA==> TOPIC: 231 RECOVERY Ref: CDE00018 Date: 09/05/95 From: ELAINE LOVELESS Time: 10:32am \/To: RICK GUSMAN (Read 2 times) Subj: Re: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT On 3 Sep 95 11:07pm, Rick Gusman wrote to Elaine Loveless: -=>> Quoting Michael Sigal to Elaine Loveless <=- RG> Congradulations (late) Elaine on your 7 years. Keep cumin' and I'm RG> looking forward to our continued conversation. Hi Rick! Wasn't me with 7 years, a message got misquoted. I had 11 years in April.....don't know who it is that has 7 years......:) Thanks for the kind thoughts. :) ... I'm just moving clouds today; tomorrow I'll try mountains. Bright Blessings, Elaine --- Via Silver Xpress V4.01P SW12813 --- Squish/386 v1.11 * Origin: The Crossroads BBS, Round Rock, Texas (512) 255-8985 (1:382/506) --------------- FIDO MESSAGE AREA==> TOPIC: 231 RECOVERY Ref: CDE00019 Date: 09/05/95 From: ELAINE LOVELESS Time: 10:34am \/To: MICHAEL SIGAL (Read 2 times) Subj: Re: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT On 4 Sep 95 09:54pm, Michael Sigal wrote to Elaine Loveless: >>------------------------------------ MS> Nope, somebody misquoted a message....I had 11 years back in MS> April.....but thanks for the nice wishes any way! >>------------------------------------ MS> I thought it looked goofy...that's why the "Where have I been???" Somebody is missing all these wonderful wishes that people are sending to me...... MS> I just suffer from a bad case of CRS syndrome. CRS? EL>> And I thought I was confused when I =didn't= know what was going EL>> on! MS> Still don't know ! I know! BTW, got the plane reservations will be back late on the 25th...... ... I tried to contain myself, but I escaped. Bright Blessings, Elaine --- Via Silver Xpress V4.01P SW12813 --- Squish/386 v1.11 * Origin: The Crossroads BBS, Round Rock, Texas (512) 255-8985 (1:382/506) --------------- FIDO MESSAGE AREA==> TOPIC: 231 RECOVERY Ref: CDE00020 Date: 09/05/95 From: MARGE CLARK Time: 09:03pm \/To: TIM DILL (Read 2 times) Subj: Echo I thought I heard Tim Dill (1:102/749.2) say: ->> Hmm .. Marge I'll handle that as I have the full mailer up.... Tim, I was answering Rich's question. and, the point is, *someone* had best handle it fairly soon. --- msged 2.06 * Origin: Promises bbs, Nashville TN (615) 367-4410 (1:116/3000.5)